How do you resolve conflicts in marriage or in a relationship?

Q: Master Lu, how do we resolve “predestined conflicts”—

conflicts between couples or conflicts in marriage? We follow the instruction of your Buddhist practice— Guan Yin Citta Dharma Door—to recite sutras and mantras. But I still cannot wrap my head around the issue.

I recite the Mantra to Untie Karmic Knots every day, but still hope that you could give us a clear solution to this problem.

“Predestined conflicts” in relationships can be damaging, as I’ve seen many couples around me breaking up because of them.

A:

“Predestined conflicts” between married couples do exist. If the result of fortune-telling confirms that a husband and his wife are in conflict based on both their birth dates, you could consider employing the following methods to resolve the conflict:

• First, it’s recommended that the couple sleep in different rooms.

• Each person should recite the Mantra to Untie Karmic Knots 21 or 49 times per day to resolve their karmic conflicts.

• The rate of effectiveness for resolving a couple’s conflicts by reciting the following sutras and mantras could be around 50% (results vary from person to person):

• Recite the Heart Sutra for each other 7 or 21 times per day.

• Recite the Eighty-Eight Buddhas Great Repentance to repent and eliminate the karmic obstacles that lead to the conflict in marriage or in a relationship.

• If the situation has not been turned around after practicing all the above-mentioned methods for quite some time, you will need to recite Little Houses for each other. Address the Little Houses to the “Karmic Creditor of <your partner’s name>”. You can recite more Little Houses if necessary.

source: Buddhism Questions & Answer by Master Lu Jun Hong

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How to Build Good Relationship By Reciting Scriptures (Heart Sutra)

Many not knowing we can resolve relationship problem by chanting scripture

Q046: Hi Master Lu, if we want to have a good relationship, what should we recite?

A046: 

• In addition to the fundamental sutras and mantras that you recite for your Daily Recitation (Kung Ko), which includes theGreat Compassion Mantra (Ta Pei Chou) 7 times, Heart Sutra (Hsin Ching) 7 times, and Eighty-eight Buddhas Great Repentance (Li Fo Ta Chan Hui Wen) 3 to 7 times, if you want to have a good relationship, you should recite the following mantras.
• You can recite the Sri Devi Dharani (Ta Chi Hsiang Tien Nu Chou) 21 to 49 times per day. Before you recite, you can say the following prayer, “May the Great Merciful and Great Compassionate Guan Yin Bodhisattva protect and bless me, <your full name>, help me to find a good relationship.” You can recite this mantra a greater number of times if possible. When you recite the mantra you should maintain focus and not have a distracted mind. It is best to visualise the image of the Great Merciful and Great Compassionate Guan Yin Bodhisattva while you recite.
• You can recite the Mantra to Untie Karmic Knots (Chieh Chieh Chou). Before you recite, you can say the following prayer, “May the Great Merciful and Great Compassionate Guan Yin Bodhisattva protect and bless me, <your full name>, help me to transform and resolve the karmic obstacles due to negative karmas in my relationship (or marriage), and allow me to obtain a harmonious relationship.” You can recite this mantra 21 to 49 times per day.
• Apart from reciting the sutras and mantras mentioned above, if you also make Great Vows and perform Life Liberation, the results would be even better.
• If you are destined to have a relationship, then Guan Yin Bodhisattva will help you to find one; otherwise it is best not to forcefully ask for what you are not meant to have. Even if you receive what you ask for, the result may not be fortunate.
• Once you have a relationship, you must try your best to maintain this relationship. It is best if both of you believe in Buddhism and perform recitations. You can cultivate together for a better future.

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Introduction to Reciting Sutras and Mantras (Heart Sutra)

Power of Reciting Heart Sutra

Heart Sutra, Prajna Paramita Hrdaya Sutra in Sanskrit, or Po Jo Po Lo Mi To Hsin Ching 般若般羅密多心經 (Hsin Ching 心經) in short, is for establishing connections with Guan Yin Bodhisattva, and to obtain wisdom through the mercy and compassion of Guan Yin Bodhisattva. This sutra takes the form of energy in the Asura realm and the Deva realm (known as “Heaven” in English), it carries means of currency in the underworld, and most importantly, it is wisdom in the human realm. Some of its great powers include: disciplining misbehaved children (making children more obedient); influencing adults to have a religious belief e.g. Buddhism; communicating with elders who are stubborn; calming emotions; granting wisdom; and alleviating depression. It can also be used for performing the transferring of merits to the deceased.

For Daily Recitation: Generally 3 or 7 times per day until the end of life. The Heart Sutra can be recited until 10PM during good weather. If it is cloudy or rainy, it is best if you can recite it during day time. You should avoid reciting the Heart Sutra after 10PM, or during extreme weather, including heavy rain, thunderstorm, and lightning.

Prayer: Before reciting this sutra, you can say your prayer or wish as follows, “May the Great Merciful and Great Compassionate Guan Yin Bodhisattva protect and bless me, <your full name>, grant me wisdom, a pure mind, calmness; and help me to be free from afflictions (maintain focus while performing recitations).”

How to Build Good Relationship By Reciting Scriptures (Heart Sutra)

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Metaphysics Q&A – How to Resolve Conflicts in Marriage/Relationships?

Q003:
Dear Junhong Lu : How do we resolve a couple’s conflicts or conflicts in marriage? Chinese fortune tellers would say that such incompatibility could be predetermined. As a follower of your Buddhist practice— Guan Yin Citta Dharma Door, I recite Buddhist scriptures as you instruct. But I still can’t wrap my head around the issue.  I recite the Mantra to Untie Karmic Knots (Chieh Chieh Chou) every day, but still hope that you could give me a prescription for this problem.  Such “predetermined incompatibility” in relationships seems so destructive that I’ve seen many couples around me breaking up because of this.
A003:
“Predetermined incompatibility” in marriage relationships does exist. If you confirm that a husband and his wife are indeed incompatible with each other based upon the reading after matching the husband’s date of birth with that of his wife (a Chinese fortune-telling practice), you could consider the following methods to resolve the conflict:

• First, it’s recommended that the couple sleep in different rooms.

• Each person should recite the Mantra to Untie Karmic Knots (Chieh Chieh Chou) 21 to 49 times per day to resolve karmic conflicts.

• The effectiveness rate of resolving a couple’s conflicts by reciting the following sutras and mantras could be 50% (actual results vary from person to person):

1. Recite the Heart Sutra (Hsin Ching) for each other 7 to 21 times per day.
2. Recite the Eighty-eight Buddhas Great Repentance (Li Fo Ta Chan Hui Wen) to repent and eliminate the karmic obstacles that lead to the conflicts in marriage/relationship.

If the situation has not been turned around after using all of the above methods for a while, you will need to recite Little Houses (Hsiao Fang Tzu) for each other.  Address the Little Houses to the “Karmic Creditor of <your partner’s name>”. You can recite more Little Houses if required.

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